Take advantage of your grasp around her. Stroking around her body like her back, butts, shoulders, neck etc. is a turn on. Make sure you do it gently. Don’t be a creep by going for her breasts, this is not going to get you anywhere, in fact it’s going to reduce the sexual energy.
Talk about how she looks, how she smells, how she dances, how you feel being with her, how good she feels in your arms, etc. Women love to hear nice things especially when spoken in their ears. Sometimes they will respond by saying nice things back to you. If she does, that is a good sign.
When talking, lightly play with her hand or fingers. Run your fingers through her hair while looking in her eyes. Grab her around the waist and pull her hip against yours. You can also pull her directly towards you and have your waists touching.
It’s ok to talk:
if it’s a fun track where you’re playing around and generally it’s a less serious song which is more fun than creating a serious connection. at the end of a dance, and during the walk onto the dance floor (maybe the first couple of bars of the track)
How Dancing Turns on Men and Women. It’s a scientifically proven fact that men are more aroused by visual cues while women get more turned on by their other senses, including the sense of smell and the sense of touch. Still, any form of dance is likely to turn on both partners.
Girls look for guys who are cute and good looking, but it’s a personal taste as to what matters the most. Girls are much more interested in a warm smile and nice eyes (these may be what a girl looks for in a guy physically), but it’s what’s on the inside that counts.
If you’ve walked up to the girl and her body language says that she wants to talk, start up a conversation and introduce yourself. If they say hello back, there’s a good chance that they want to talk to you. Say something like “Hey, my name’s Erin. I just saw you from across the room.”
With all this in mind, I think it should be glaringly obvious that when a guy asks you to slow dance, he likes you. Especially at younger ages, he really really likes you. He could have a staggering amount of confidence, making up his mind to suavely ask you to dance with him. Or he’ll be like me.
Barbie Girl – by Aqua | Kids dance choreography | Latinium Dance